Sunday, October 25, 2009
Special post to Bernard..... (see...
special ok... )
1st of all i wanna say....Ok..maybe you noe alot le..but wat i gonna say is juz a reminder to you ba....i nt gd in advices de. Anyway. Hope certain things of what I gonna say can help you abit ba ok?
I met up with my this gd friend just 2 days ago. Hmmm...seems like he is quite upset loh. Cause he lost juz some stupid training pass and kana confinement for 2 days.
Anyway, I noe u sad is not abt e confinement.....is other thing.
I know i din offer v good advices. I tink my ex-bf is right abt sth. He said "u can't offer gd advices at all. though u r a gd listener."
Hmm... i know sometimes i abit useless lars. Cause all i can ever do is to offer my ear and being there. But I can't offer you any help at all.
I guess I nt v matured yet...nv really seen & know e world yet. That's why.
Hopefully all is well b/w u n her ok?
A couple ma...anything can be solved. I
strongly believe in this.
I know at some point you feel you done ur best and feel a little like giving up. But don't ok?
Really.
If you know especially you love her very much...she also love u very much ma.. Try again lars.. She sure understand wan.......Maybe she juz let her memory slip by sometimes and abit playful cos still young also ma.
I still hv faith that she will change for you de lars. Juz tt you must hv more patience and wait ok?
I mean ...u c. When i in rs. I will tell my bf. Ok i will change. e word "Change" hor....needs some time de lors......... and what i mean by some time? Some time may be referring to One year?
You see. I always late right. Honestly. No bf of mine can stand my this habit. They really flare up with me. In the end don't even like going out with me. In e end what happens? Our rs Strain~~~ They no patience to wait for me ...so don't talk abt waiting for me to change this bad habit. They say "if u luv me y u make me wait?"
It's my bad habit! Not tt i don't luv him right?
The difference b/w bad habbit and dun care about you is only a fine line away yet it is 2 different issues. It is vital that you understand this difference clearly and not to link it together.
Somemore..u also tell me she say she din do all these on purpose ma right? And last time she also not like tt de right? Don't doubt her lars...
Doubt is a scary word u knoe. It's e beginning of a devilic act ~
Try to understand her more ba. Try to see another angle of e picture or e pic as a whole. Maybe she wrong in certain thing like i said she let certain thing slips out of her mind. But always rem. You and her are 2 different individuals and imptly,
put urself in her shoes. Try to understand from her point of view......
And you see ah...being angry is a negative of love. Love is like a bank. You put in more money, it only grows more n more due to interest rates (interest rate here refers to e more u treat her nice..she will treat u nice too in return or even better). If u keep taking it out (by being angry as you may neglect her when u angry), ur money gets lesser. Lesser abit is fine though. You noe what i mean?
Seriously...i duno if i quote a gd example though...but its juz a simple illustration example to let u understand abit better i hope.....
So give her some time ok? If it's some super bad habbits like 2 timing or wat den of cos tell her
Go to hell u f***ing bit*h. lol.
ah bo......
support her a little more...
wait a while more...and u'll soon see a
miracle being born in no time.
Love conquers all difficulties. With love all is possible. Believe in yourself and more importantly, you must believe in her. Trust that the 2 of you can overcome any & every obstacles.
Good Luck pal !!
10/25/2009 05:36:00 AM
I pass my Managerial Accounting! Weeee
Ah...
Later gt class at 10am.. Wat am i doing..?
Anyway, it's really time to Piang le !!!! Really dun wanna let my parents down.
I aiming for a Distinction instead this time round. I gonna study hard and put alot of my focus in it. Of course must save some focus for my lovely friends right? hehe...
I won't neglect u all wan lars..even when i hv a bf ok!! so dun always say i Zhong Se Qing You.
These days, my dad v nagging n temper quite bad. Duno wat's up w him.
I guess tonight i really gonna slp early since i'm going to slp only about 3 hrs. Go to sch...den lunch w a friend...den...i tink i going home. lolx...........
I tink i more n more lazy. I luv gg out. But as i stay at home more n more...i got lazier instead. Omg.
Pls bring me out lars ~~~ *hinting uncle* I helping shan & bro fred & yao to hint~
tsk tsk........
Seriously uncle...so long nv meet...dun u miss us? =(
I miss our days of luo han guo too.........! I gonna be heaty from all e assignments & tests....*hint hint*
ha ha~~
Haiya sian lars... i can't put on my face mask anymore. too late le....
Y am i so lazy. this is so bad... No i muz jiayou tis time round.
Ok will blog again.... tata~~~
10/25/2009 05:19:00 AM
